Some good points, Audsley. I'm a Boomer, too, and yes, far from being the "Refer Madness" depicted years ago, most of us Boomers know that an occasional puff of weed is really no worse for you than knocking back a couple of stiff shots of liquor. I was a child of the late 60's and 70's - the "Peace, Love, and Pot" Generation, if you will. Smoking weed was as much a sign of rebellion against the establishment as it was about getting high. Life goes on, I grew up and realized that I could make something of my life or just sit around being a dirty Hippie with a menial job and stay stoned all the time. Some people make that transition, some never do.
Nobody is addicted to marijuana. Socially and behaviorally maybe, but not physically. It's easy to throw away the bong and rolling papers and say "I'm done with this crap" and that's the end of it. It's a hell of a lot harder to quit cigarettes or give up drinking than to stop smoking pot. The reason we don't want our kids doing it is because so many of us Boomers went down that path and know that it's a dead end -- it just makes you stupid, unmotivated, and in the long run, is a fantastic waste of time and money.
About marijuana being a gateway drug - that's been claimed for years and there was a lot of truth to it, but not so much anymore. Back in the day, if pot was good, then acid and peyote were better because being high was about expanding your conciousness, being at one with the universe, cosmic understanding, seeing rainbows, unicorns and other such crap. Heroin was about needles, junkies, puking your guts out, and overdoses. I grew up in a town that was flooded with drugs. I saw several friends die from heroin. As Neil Young said, "I've seen the needle and the damage done... every junkie's like a setting sun."
Today, meth is the plague, much more so than heroin, even though there's been an uptick once again in heroin use. Meth makes you feel like superman for days at a time, until you crash. It also completely rewires your neural network for one thing - more meth, at any cost. Cocaine? Not as bad as meth, but also responsible for rewiring you to want another line and more of a "sport" drug, if you can afford it. It's hard to be addicted to anything if you can't afford it.
If you've got an addictive personality, it's easy to become addicted to any drug. Nicotine, alcohol, heroin, caffeine, pot, meth, whatever. Smoking one joint does not mean you'll be sticking a needle in your arm next week. However, smoking that first joint does erase the dark, illegal stigma associated with drugs. You smoke those first few joints with some friends, get stoned, and then look back thinking "Hey, that wasn't so bad. I didn't die or turn into a raving lunatic and it actually felt pretty good." Then you wonder what else they lied to you about and try other drugs. In the regard I just described, marijuana is indeed a gateway drug. It often does open the door to trying other things. How much of that stigma would be erased by legalization? Realistically, alcohol is readily available to everyone of age, but do all of us grow up to be alcoholics? No, we don't. Legalizing marijuana won't turn us all into stoners.
I give kids today a lot more credit than when I was growing up. They've been bombarded since birth with anti-drug propoganda. Drugs are just not as "cool" today as they were in my generation and that's a good thing. Tweakers (meth users) are outright despised by their peer group - they lie, cheat and steal and nobody wants to be around them. Stoners (pot smokers) are looked on with similar disregard, but without the outright despise held toward tweakers. The peer group overall views stoners as stupid, not disgusting. I know this because I've raised 4 kids with the youngest graduating high school next month and heading to ASU in the fall. I've talked with them and their friends about drugs and their attitudes about it. Amazingly, I'm surprised at how focused most of them are. Focused on achievement, not partying or getting high. They want the latest cell phones, video games, a car, scholarships, a college education and a good job. Then again, I never recall anyone of my friends saying "I want to be a heroin addict when I grow up," yet some of them did become just that. One of my four kids did head down the wrong path for awhile, but it was her defiant personality that took her there, despite all our attempts at intervention. She has since recovered and leads a clean and sober life, recently got married, has a job and a child. She finally saw the light and that's a good thing.
So, do I think legalization will turn us into a nation of addicts? Nope, not at all. Oh, I'm sure there will be initial euphoria and celebration of it actually being legal. As soon as the hype dies down, life will pretty much return to what it is right now - those that choose to smoke pot will still do it and those that don't won't bother. Drug testing will still and should be a reality. Personally, because of doing contract work for different companies last year, I was drug tested three times. Doesn't bother me a bit, I know I'm clean. If you want a decent job and a paycheck, you accept that. If you want to live on welfare and be a drug addict, that's your choice, too. Just don't expect me to pay for your drug habit. I firmly believe that anybody getting government assistance to live (welfare) should have to take a drug test on a regular basis. Fail once and you lose all benefits until you test clean at least three times.
As far as putting the genie back in the bottle? I see no problem with that. I grew up in Pennsylvania. The drinking age was 21. Always was, always will be. In the 70's, partly as a result of the Vietnam War, every state around Pennsylvania lowered the drinking age to 18 (old enough to vote, old enough to be drafted and fight the war, but not old enough to buy a beer??). I could drive over to Jersey and legally get drunk as a skunk. Or Maryland. Or Ohio. Or New York. And then of course, drive home drunk. But, I couldn't legally walk into a bar in my hometown and buy a beer. Flash forward to today, what's the drinking age? 21 everywhere in the US of A. Why? Because the Federal government witheld funds from any state that refused to raise the drinking age to 21. Our government legislates morality all the freakin' time from raising cigarette taxes to try and make people stop smoking to criminalizing not picking up your dog's poop from the street corner. Nothing stops them from doing the same thing with marijuana.
Anyway, there is so much to this debate. None of us know exactly what will happen. The one thing we can probably all agree on is this - what we've been doing (the war on drugs) for the past 40 years hasn't worked. It's definitely time to try something else! The situation with the cartels in Mexico is only getting worse. That violence will spill over the border; it's already started to do just that. I doubt we are "unleashing the genie from the bottle." More so as a nation, I think we're being realistic and admitting responsibility for our actions, that X% of our population does and will continue to smoke marijuana regardless of drug testing or any laws against it, and that all the money now funneled into blackmarket cartel pockets will become a legal source of revenue.